Chains of MephistopholesAs you can see, there is a distinction between during your draw step, or outside you drawstep. Indeed, if you activate the jar outside the draw step, both mill 7. If activated during the draw step, multiple things can happen.
First we look at the active players choices:
If the active player has already drawn a card (as he is entitled to), he mills 7, because he has already drawn a card, and because of the "setting aside" no cards to discard.
If he hasn't drawn a card yet, then he draws the first card, and after that starts the discard a card, draw a card process (remember his regular draw is affected as well in this scenario).
The opponent will do the same (draw a card first, the go into the draw / dicard loop), after the active player (because of the APNAP rule).
Remember that in the case of memory jar there is no opening for either player to cast a disenchant or something on the chains during the resolution of the memory jar.
Hope this answer clears things up instead of making it more confusing
