boys and girls

[Freelancer]

Oh yes those explanations mean a lot to me. Please ignore my request.

The fact that you attributed a quote by Jacob to me kind of proves that, yeah

I will never place a name in a quote tag again. Now I wonder to whom I need to apologize for messing up, Bram because I compared him to Jacob or Jacob because I compared him to Bram. 

[Bram]

Obviously the former, since the quote is nonsensical and I therefor resent it having been attributed to me

Subconscious and unconscious are two very different concepts and as such, a general rule like the one Jacob gave is meaningless. Possibly some people confused the concepts in this thread in that they said the one when the meant the other, but even so, stating that 'unconscious' is the 'proper' terminology in this dicussion is ass

For reference:

Subconscious:
adj.
Not wholly conscious; partially or imperfectly conscious: subconscious perceptions.
n.
The part of the mind below the level of conscious perception. Often used with the.

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Unconscious:
adj.
Lacking awareness and the capacity for sensory perception; not conscious.
Temporarily lacking consciousness.
Occurring in the absence of conscious awareness or thought: unconscious resentment; unconscious fears.
Without conscious control; involuntary or unintended: an unconscious mannerism.
n.
The division of the mind in psychoanalytic theory containing elements of psychic makeup, such as memories or repressed desires, that are not subject to conscious perception or control but that often affect conscious thoughts and behavior.

[Britanny]

Now you need the opinion of a girl :

IF A MAN FINDS YOU ATTRACTIVE YOU CANNOT BE FRIENDS

This is very very shitting , currently , I really hope to be friend with men but they still try to seduce me -_- .

The guy already has a woman much higher than you on the ladder

Just to say that this can't be . *roXXor*

Money and Power: 50%, Attraction: 40%

That's true I admit it , BUT I want to add something ; all the women are not like this ; beautiful one , yes , they can do that but those who are ugly can't do that because men who have power , money and blah blah are already with the beautiful women. About that I want to I want to dismount a certain theory about that : Ugly people .

This is very simple :  1 beautiful girl + 1 beautiful men = 2 beautiful people , OK .
Some people think that ugly people are like mathematics ,you know : - + - = +
NO, this is not true : 1 ugly men+ 1 ugly women = Infamous people !

That's what I 'm thinking , you have the right to be agree

P.S ; Funny the ladder theory.

[Jacob Orlove]

Subconscious and unconscious are two very different concepts and as such, a general rule like the one Jacob gave is meaningless. Possibly some people confused the concepts in this thread in that they said the one when the meant the other, but even so, stating that 'unconscious' is the 'proper' terminology in this dicussion is ass

For reference:

Subconscious:
adj.
Not wholly conscious; partially or imperfectly conscious: subconscious perceptions.
n.
The part of the mind below the level of conscious perception. Often used with the.

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Unconscious:
adj.
Lacking awareness and the capacity for sensory perception; not conscious.
Temporarily lacking consciousness.
Occurring in the absence of conscious awareness or thought: unconscious resentment; unconscious fears.
Without conscious control; involuntary or unintended: an unconscious mannerism.
n.
The division of the mind in psychoanalytic theory containing elements of psychic makeup, such as memories or repressed desires, that are not subject to conscious perception or control but that often affect conscious thoughts and behavior.

I wasn't referring to states of consciousness, but to the psychological terminology. Freud introduced the term "subconscious," but modern day psychology now recognizes the conscious and unconscious minds--NOT the subconscious. When you're talking about where impulses like these originate, "unconscious" is very definitely the proper term.

[Joel Rojo]

This is a theory on attraction, not on actual love, this should be fairly obvious, as it is that with most women, when they say what they look for in a guy, it actually is what they will seek when they are near 30 and want to settle down before its too late.

And, as sad as it may be for you, there is a need of some sort of balance for a relationship to work, otherwise the lower part has to strain he(r)self in order to make things more leveled, and the upper part at some points starts to wonder about if its really worth it, or has a lot of disbalancing power in the relationship, etc, which leads to unhappiness.

Like, usually the happier couples are made of people that are mostly balanced, similar lifestyles, similar look rating, similar economic power and background, and all that. If balance is noticeable broken somewhere, it must be attained by compensating it with something else, like, if the guy's ugly, but he's rich, he's able to date much better woman than otherwise. He might be a charming person, but he's really ugly he would have a REALLY, REALLY hard shot at actually getting somebody as good as he would get if he also was rich.

And, as advise, women need to be satisfied both mentally and, to a certain point much lower than a man's point, phisically, I think even the ladder theory says something to this effect. The point is, if you actually want to have a serious relationship, make sure you satisfy her in both ways (obviously, to the extent that she wants or needs to, it will often not mean sex, or actually staying the hell away from it), this is because if you don't succeed in both accounts, she will find a way to restore balance, and this often means having another guy for this tasks. Shitty, eh? But that's how it very often goes, I've seen some really (otherwise) cute and caring woman having a sideshow because of this. Don't say I didn't warn you.