A flashed-back spell is exiled as part of its resolution. If it gets returned to your hand from the stack it never resolves and thus is never exiled.
This is wrong. Please do not post in the rules forum unless you do know the exact ruling for a question. If you do know it, double check with the comprehensive rules. If you had done this in this case, the rules would have told you the following:
From the Comprehensive Rules:
702.32. Flashback
702.32a Flashback appears on some instants and sorceries. It represents two static abilities: one that functions while the card is in a player's graveyard and the other that functions while the card is on the stack. "Flashback [cost]" means "You may cast this card from your graveyard by paying [cost] rather than paying its mana cost" and
"If the flashback cost was paid, exile this card instead of putting it anywhere else any time it would leave the stack." Casting a spell using its flashback ability follows the rules for paying alternative costs in rules 601.2b and 601.2e-g.
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So, to answer the question:
A flashbacked spell countered with venser is exiled.
Edit:
Also, for the thread opener as well as the one replying:
Read the "READ THIS!" thread stickied at the top of the rules section. It advises you to check the comprehensive rules for yourself, instead of asking blindly. It also advises you to use TMD's search function to see if your question has already been answered. Had either of you done this, you would have found this link:
http://www.themanadrain.com/index.php?topic=28854.0 where indeed the question is already answered (and where someone even says the spell would return to the hand and was then corrected).
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