You can't Soulbond with an opponent's creature. Soulbond doesn't even trigger off opponent's creatures, owing to an intervening "if" clause. Not when the Soulbond creature enters the battlefield, and not when an opponent's does either.
The reminder text on Soulbond creatures is just an abbreviation. The complete rules text for what "Soulbond" stands for is two triggered abilities:
"When this creature enters the battlefield, if you control both this creature and another creature and both are unpaired, you may pair this creature with another unpaired creature you control for as long as both remain creatures on the battlefield under your control"
and
"Whenever another creature enters the battlefield under your control, if you control both that creature and this one and both are unpaired, you may pair that creature with this creature for as long as both remain creatures on the battlefield under your control."